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More Sex, More Money, More Money, More Sex.
Prnicisa and I have been in the marriage coaching space for over a decade, and we have seen some pretty interesting things. We have come to the conclusion that satan hates the Judaeo Christian blueprint with a passion. Marriages have been under severe attack right from Genesis chapter three. Adam and Eve can testify to this.
One of our most interesting findings is the correlation between your sex life and your income. "You mean there is a relationship between the two?" Yes, a thousand times yes. About fifteen years ago, I presented this postulation to an audience of couples as we met for a couples picnic. There was some resistance to my presentation as couples could not figure out how these two things are related. I must admit as much as I knew I was right, my argument was weak. I did not have all the needed facts, I had done no surveys, nor was there any research done, and I was merely following an instruction from the Lord.
Years later, I was able to do what we called the sexperiment. This was a simple challenge that we gave to our couples group. They were to make love every day for thirty days regardless of mood, health, fatigue levels, or any other excuses, including the week of the period. That sounds scary and almost blasphemous for some, but there are ways to handle this. For the couples that complied, we saw the following results.
- Greater happiness
Greater bondedness
Greater confidence
Greater security
Greater peace and harmony (Fewer wars)
Greater marketplace presence and authority
Greater resource management
Less marital anxiety
Less social anxiety
Less depression
Ok, if you are smart, you can already figure it out. These are all factors that affect the bottom line in your life as a couple. Of course, there were other results, like weight loss and more babies in our church. Fortunately, we did not get sued as we had not put a disclaimer before starting the sexperiment; back to the point. If you look at the list tabled above, you will see that this list makes up all the factors that affect your income as a family. Five years after my first presentation of my thought, Yahoo did some research on the same matter and came up with the same results that I had been teaching; their research was, however, done on just couples, not married couples.
For the record, note that I am not saying that all couples that have great sex or frequent sex will make more money. I am saying that there is a relationship between great frequent sex with income. So, why is it that having a great sex life increases your income as a couple? We can safely assume that a couple with a great sex life has the ten listed points working for them. This results in greater confidence and harmony in the relationship and with external relationships in the workplace, marketplace, etc. Greater social interaction naturally gives many advantages like people enjoying you more. We know that we all buy more products from a salesperson we like than we do from the one we don't get along with. So the sense of confidence naturally feeds into marketplace success and a greater ability to sell. Reduced social anxiety increases one's ability to connect with clients, colleagues, and employers, and that results in a greater business environment.
We live in an age where companies invest heavily in team-building events in an effort to increase synergy in the workplace; companies that include spouses for these events will see a greater output than those that don't. Why is this? Because the unity between a couple increases the team-player factor of the employee. In fact, you will find that employees that come from troubled relationships are more distracted and prone to making mistakes that affect the business.
I watched a program once that showed this aspect very well. Soccer players were brought in the two teams were created. One team was made up of players whose spouses were not present, and the other team had spouses present. At the halftime, those with spouses present were released to go have sex and then return to complete the match. There was an assumption that those that had sex during halftime would be too tired to win the match. Much to their surprise, they were proved wrong. Those that had sex during halftime won the match. Perhaps we needed a doctor present to check hormone levels and other scientific factors during this experiment. You can draw your own conclusion, but what I know is I need to win some matches, so perhaps I should stop writing this blog and go get some inspiration.
In the marketplace, every business wants to employ happy, confident, high-performing sales teams. People that are great team players that project a sense of self-confidence into the workplace. These again seem to come from highly sexed couples. We could go on and on with our list and prove to you that you need to increase your sex life in order to make more money, but we need to quickly have a conversation about the flip side. You noticed the title of this article is "More Sex, More Money, More Money, More Sex." Meaning the principles seems to work both ways. Why do couples with more money have better sex?
Well, that should be simple enough. If the Nigerian proverb is true, "Love is better with money," then we can safely say a couple with more money has fewer stresses, and thereby, they can focus on the more exciting issues of life. A financially strained couple is less likely to focus on lovemaking as they are trying to fix the problem that is reducing their sex. The stress levels seem to increase concomitantly with the financial pressures, and this affects the intimacy levels.
Other factors that contribute to this challenge are fatigue, time, illness, lack of gifts, etc. This means couples get home after working double shifts, and they are too tired to make love, or the shifts are keeping them apart. Couples with more money can afford helpers and appears who reduce the workload and create more time for lovemaking. Money is a good thing as it gives you options; you will notice it is easier to settle in and make love when you can have a hot bubble bath at the end of the day and put on a great perfume and sexy lingerie. But if you are living with four cousins and an aunt, the water bill is high, it is more challenging to afford multiple hot baths a day, and you certainly cannot afford to walk around the house in hot costumes. Without multiple baths, you may not be able to have multiple orgasms.
In conclusion, work at having a greater, more intense sex life in order to make more money, and as you make more money, you will be able to have more sex. Why the hype about more sex? Well, I am sure you did not get married to have a great prayer partner. We all get married to have sex; apologies, not all of us; there are some that got married for other reasons; I was just talking about me. I already had prayer partners and encouragers, and bible study partners, then I noticed that it was not good for me to not have sex, so I got married.
For a more in-depth study of the relationship between your money and your sex life, read our book The Greatest Sex Life Ever, and go straight to the chapter "Sex For Cash." No, it's not talking about prostitution; that's unGodly. This book comes from heaven to help couples get to heaven. We also have a Married And Loving It Challenge that you can download for free and work on a six-week program to enrich your marriage. You can find it here, have fun, go make love and make money.