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Rediscovering You

 Rediscovering You

Have you ever gone through a period of time that was so busy that you felt you had lost track of yourself? You feel frustrated at the lack of progress and disappointed that you have so many undone “to-do’s” on your plate. Fatigue creeps in and you look at the future and feel it is “too much”

Yes indeed, we have all been there where life seems beyond our control. But the real question is not about whether you’ve been there or not, but rather, it is “did I manage to recover from the setback?” An even better question is “have I mastered the art of bouncing back?”

In my book Living Beyond Extraordinary, I spoke about the 10 keys to living beyond extraordinary. One of those keys is the ability to bounce back after a setback. Great people are those who have mastered this art. The road of the great is punctuated by setbacks. Some are so devastating you would be surprised when people tell their stories. 

As a coach and publisher, I have had the opportunity to sit some stories that left the hair on my body standing. God never promised an uneventful journey through life and eventually arrived in heaven as a consolation for a boring life. Rather Jesus said “in the world, you shall have some drama, but be of good cheer and stay positive because I have overcome”

Well, that is the Dr. Tich revised version, but it’s close to what He meant using current parlance. Apparently, the drama is designed to help you discover yourself. God preordained that the drama would bring out the best you. You were created with extraordinary skills and abilities that are designed to help you become a great blessing to the world around you. 

I had to learn not to pray away the circumstances that were designed to grow me. Rediscovering you is about sitting with yourself and asking yourself some questions. Some of those questions may be very uncomfortable. In answering the questions you locate where you are as a person. You are able to put together an action plan to grow yourself and become better so you do not repeat a previous setback.

To go through a divorce or major financial crisis is one thing, but for this to repeat three, four, or five times, means the person that is the common denominator in all these situations is not mastering the art of dealing with the setbacks. When I lost my job, I could have prayed for its restoration, but the Lord told me not to. I sat with myself after that and rediscover the me, I had lost in the clutter of doing ministry. I was functional but not growing. I was happy but stagnant. I was busy but broke. My schedule was full but there was no real tangible fruit to quantify what I was doing with my time.

Perhaps this may sound a little familiar, or maybe a little too uncomfortable, but that’s ok. I did not write this to condemn anyone. My intention is to provoke a conversation in your head that will lead to you rediscovering yourself and breaking out of this stagnant existence. 

The crises in our lives, and the setbacks force us to check on ourselves and do a review of our priorities, programs, and principles by which we govern our lives. We ask ourselves, do I really believe in God? Is my tithing really working? Are these relationships important? And so on.

In case you are saying, “I would like to get these questions and take myself on a journey of rediscovering myself” well you are in the right place. I have a special offer. We are launching Success Masters. This is one of the coaching programs offered in our Transformational Leadership School (TLS). The module and the video sessions are worth R1200 that’s a measly R120 per hour for 10 sessions. 

That is a whopping 90% discount off the value of this program when you do it in person with me. Same content, and greater clarity and you can repeat, rewind and relisten. (Is that even a word?) We have used this content to help thousands of people go on the journey of rediscovering themselves and rising to do great things for the Kingdom. 

Oh, I forgot to mention that the special offer is even more special than what you read. You can do this course for FREE. Yes indeed, free. What’s the catch? I know we are always skeptical about things with the word free attached to them. The truth is there is no catch. I am offering you my best coaching content for free. You just have to register before the 28th of February 2023. I have lived my life on the principle of sowing into people's lives, and I would love to make this investment into your life.

You will learn…

Keys to developing your success plan

How to do vision mapping

Discover personal vision

Develop a success strategy

Break into beyond-extraordinary living

Learn to audit your relationships for maximum impact living

All this and much more. To avoid the destiny destroyer called procrastination, get in touch with me now at tich@drtich.com and we will send you some vital documents needed to start the journey. Make this year your greatest year with a twelve thousand rand investment into your life. 

By the way, as a final word, feel free to share this email with someone you love. What a gift. This may be the very thing they need to turn their life around. Get your teens on this program and you will be amazed at the change in their lives.

To get our coaching menu please send me an email at

tich@drtich.com or go to our website www.drtich.com

Thank you so much and God bless you.

Dr. Tich Tanyanyiwa 

Your coach

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More Sex, More Money, More Money, More Sex.

Prnicisa and I have been in the marriage coaching space for over a decade, and we have seen some pretty interesting things. We have come to the conclusion that satan hates the Judaeo Christian blueprint with a passion. Marriages have been under severe attack right from Genesis chapter three. Adam and Eve can testify to this.

One of our most interesting findings is the correlation between your sex life and your income. "You mean there is a relationship between the two?" Yes, a thousand times yes. About fifteen years ago, I presented this postulation to an audience of couples as we met for a couples picnic. There was some resistance to my presentation as couples could not figure out how these two things are related. I must admit as much as I knew I was right, my argument was weak. I did not have all the needed facts, I had done no surveys, nor was there any research done, and I was merely following an instruction from the Lord.

Years later, I was able to do what we called the sexperiment. This was a simple challenge that we gave to our couples group. They were to make love every day for thirty days regardless of mood, health, fatigue levels, or any other excuses, including the week of the period. That sounds scary and almost blasphemous for some, but there are ways to handle this. For the couples that complied, we saw the following results.

1. 
   Greater happiness

2. Greater bondedness

3. Greater confidence 

4. Greater security

5. Greater peace and harmony (Fewer wars)

6. Greater marketplace presence and authority

7. Greater resource management

8. Less marital anxiety

9. Less social anxiety

10. Less depression

Ok, if you are smart, you can already figure it out. These are all factors that affect the bottom line in your life as a couple. Of course, there were other results, like weight loss and more babies in our church. Fortunately, we did not get sued as we had not put a disclaimer before starting the sexperiment; back to the point. If you look at the list tabled above, you will see that this list makes up all the factors that affect your income as a family. Five years after my first presentation of my thought, Yahoo did some research on the same matter and came up with the same results that I had been teaching; their research was, however, done on just couples, not married couples. 

For the record, note that I am not saying that all couples that have great sex or frequent sex will make more money. I am saying that there is a relationship between great frequent sex with income. So, why is it that having a great sex life increases your income as a couple? We can safely assume that a couple with a great sex life has the ten listed points working for them. This results in greater confidence and harmony in the relationship and with external relationships in the workplace, marketplace, etc. Greater social interaction naturally gives many advantages like people enjoying you more. We know that we all buy more products from a salesperson we like than we do from the one we don't get along with. So the sense of confidence naturally feeds into marketplace success and a greater ability to sell. Reduced social anxiety increases one's ability to connect with clients, colleagues, and employers, and that results in a greater business environment.

We live in an age where companies invest heavily in team-building events in an effort to increase synergy in the workplace; companies that include spouses for these events will see a greater output than those that don't. Why is this? Because the unity between a couple increases the team-player factor of the employee. In fact, you will find that employees that come from troubled relationships are more distracted and prone to making mistakes that affect the business. 

I watched a program once that showed this aspect very well. Soccer players were brought in the two teams were created. One team was made up of players whose spouses were not present, and the other team had spouses present. At the halftime, those with spouses present were released to go have sex and then return to complete the match. There was an assumption that those that had sex during halftime would be too tired to win the match. Much to their surprise, they were proved wrong. Those that had sex during halftime won the match. Perhaps we needed a doctor present to check hormone levels and other scientific factors during this experiment. You can draw your own conclusion, but what I know is I need to win some matches, so perhaps I should stop writing this blog and go get some inspiration. 

In the marketplace, every business wants to employ happy, confident, high-performing sales teams. People that are great team players that project a sense of self-confidence into the workplace. These again seem to come from highly sexed couples. We could go on and on with our list and prove to you that you need to increase your sex life in order to make more money, but we need to quickly have a conversation about the flip side. You noticed the title of this article is "More Sex, More Money, More Money, More Sex." Meaning the principles seems to work both ways. Why do couples with more money have better sex?

Well, that should be simple enough. If the Nigerian proverb is true, "Love is better with money," then we can safely say a couple with more money has fewer stresses, and thereby, they can focus on the more exciting issues of life. A financially strained couple is less likely to focus on lovemaking as they are trying to fix the problem that is reducing their sex. The stress levels seem to increase concomitantly with the financial pressures, and this affects the intimacy levels. 

Other factors that contribute to this challenge are fatigue, time, illness, lack of gifts, etc. This means couples get home after working double shifts, and they are too tired to make love, or the shifts are keeping them apart. Couples with more money can afford helpers and appears who reduce the workload and create more time for lovemaking. Money is a good thing as it gives you options; you will notice it is easier to settle in and make love when you can have a hot bubble bath at the end of the day and put on a great perfume and sexy lingerie. But if you are living with four cousins and an aunt, the water bill is high, it is more challenging to afford multiple hot baths a day, and you certainly cannot afford to walk around the house in hot costumes. Without multiple baths, you may not be able to have multiple orgasms.

We often need to send our kids away from home to the movies so we can buy ourselves some "us time," but that is not possible when the wallet is tight. The bottom line is the freer you are financial status, the more frequent your sex can be. 

In conclusion, work at having a greater, more intense sex life in order to make more money, and as you make more money, you will be able to have more sex. Why the hype about more sex? Well, I am sure you did not get married to have a great prayer partner. We all get married to have sex; apologies, not all of us; there are some that got married for other reasons; I was just talking about me. I already had prayer partners and encouragers, and bible study partners, then I noticed that it was not good for me to not have sex, so I got married.

For a more in-depth study of the relationship between your money and your sex life, read our book The Greatest Sex Life Ever, and go straight to the chapter "Sex For Cash." No, it's not talking about prostitution; that's unGodly. This book comes from heaven to help couples get to heaven. We also have a Married And Loving It Challenge that you can download for free and work on a six-week program to enrich your marriage. You can find it here, have fun, go make love and make money.

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